How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids

"Get this for your pregnant friends, or yourself" (People): a hilariously candid account of one woman's quest to bring her post-baby marriage back from the brink, with life-changing, real-world advice.


Recommended by Nicole Cliffe in Slate

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How Not To Hate Your Husband After Kids tackles the last taboo subject of parenthood: the startling, white-hot fury that new (and not-so-new) mothers often have for their mates. After Jancee Dunn had her baby, she found that she was doing virtually all the household chores, even though she and her husband worked equal hours. She asked herself: How did I become the 'expert' at changing a diaper?

Many expectant parents spend weeks researching the best crib or safest car seat, but spend little if any time thinking about the titanic impact the baby will have on their marriage - and the way their marriage will affect their child.

Enter Dunn, her well-meaning but blithely unhelpful husband, their daughter, and her boisterous extended family, who show us the ways in which outmoded family patterns and traditions thwart the overworked, overloaded parents of today.

On the brink of marital Armageddon, Dunn plunges into the latest relationship research, solicits the counsel of the country's most renowned couples' and sex therapists, canvasses fellow parents, and even consults an FBI hostage negotiator on how to effectively contain an "explosive situation." Instead of having the same fights over and over, Dunn and her husband must figure out a way to resolve their larger issues and fix their family while there is still time. As they discover, adding a demanding new person to your relationship means you have to reevaluate -- and rebuild -- your marriage. In an exhilarating twist, they work together to save the day, happily returning to the kind of peaceful life they previously thought was the sole province of couples without children.

Part memoir, part self-help book with actionable and achievable advice, How Not To Hate Your Husband After Kids is an eye-opening look at how the man who got you into this position in this first place is the ally you didn't know you had.

„Obtineti acest lucru pentru prietenele dvs. insarcinate sau pentru dvs.” (Oameni): o relatare hilar de sincera a cautarii unei femei de a-si readuce casatoria post-bebelus de la margine, cu sfaturi din lumea reala care schimba viata. Recomandat de Nicole Cliffe in Slate Prezentat in alegerile oamenilor Un triciclu rosu Cea mai buna carte de crestere a anului pentru copii si copii mici Una dintre cartile parentale preferate ale revistei Mother of the Year Cum sa nu-ti urasti sotul dupa copii abordeaza ultimul subiect tabu al parintilor: furia uimitoare, alba, noua (si nu atat de noi) mamele au adesea pentru colegii lor.