Now Say This

A powerful new book that gives flustered parents the exact words to use in any situation.


A toddler meltdown over the wrong pair of trousers, siblings fighting in the back of the car, constant struggles just to leave the house … Parents have the best intentions to be patient and loving, but in the heat of the moment they often find themselves feeling helpless, desperate, and so frustrated that they resort to shouting, threatening, bribing, or caving. Now Say This solves the dilemma of how to be empathic and effective at once.


Based on their popular 3-step ‘ALP’ model — Attune, Limit Set, Problem Solve — which the authors have taught to thousands of parents in their clinical practice, Now Say This addresses issues such as:



tantrums
sibling relationships
screen time
bedtime
Best of all, it answers the question ‘Now, what do you actually say?’ using scripts and body-language tips from real-life examples. User-friendly and research based, Now Say This transforms remarkable ideas into practical how-tos that busy parents can use right away.

O noua carte puternica, care le ofera parintilor descurajati cuvintele exacte de utilizat in orice situatie. O prabusire a copilului mic peste o pereche gresita de pantaloni, frati care se lupta in spatele masinii, lupte constante doar pentru a parasi casa ... Parintii au cele mai bune intentii de a fii rabdator si iubitor, dar in caldura momentului se simt adesea neajutorat, disperat si atat de frustrat incat recurg la strigate, amenintari, mita sau spele.